The Roulette Wheel: Its History And Explanation
Back to the weather/market example. Let's say the weather forecast for market day was bright and sunny, but you decided to stay home instead. Even though people turned up at the markets, stayed a long time browsing and would have brought your cakes and jams, it didn't happen because you decided not to show up.
The wife said that the relationship had already begun to cool a bit on its own. So it was possible that the other man wouldn't be all that upset about it ending or require a long, drawn out explanation. It's my opinion that it's probably to every one's benefit to tell the other person that the relationship should end because it isn't the right course of action for either of you. It was simply a mistake that can be corrected by ending it now. No one can really argue with that logic and it doesn't get too personal or specific. You've given them the courtesy of an explanation which doesn't invite a long debate. Sure, they may ask you if you're ending it has anything to do with your spouse or your marriage, Wikiwat but since your relationship is over, this isn't their business or concern.
Ironically, NO'S with judgment in the wings are indeed a way of getting back at and making others feel inadequate - of throwing bitterness around, of making sure that NEW boundaries are reset by clearly stating "not anymore." Anger and at times rage, accompanied the NO and by screaming at the world, one was actually screaming at all of the many times in the past when they couldn't say NO, when they didn't have the courage or the power to stand draw the line in the sand out of self respect.
The most important step right now is to truly understand and accept that ADHD is a real, biological condition. Whether you see it is a disorder, illness, or deficit is entirely up to you. However, I won't use those words.
The larger power, a more ominous Goliath that seeks to frustrate unbridled movement, clashes with the tiny David. And in this epic war for survival, Goliath always wins.
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It's not that saying NO makes life any more pleasurable. But it does make it more authentic, more self-aware and self-assured. In keeping NO'S clean we discover that others will get what they need from a power greater than us. And that is the essence of true faith. When we say respectfully and joyfully, NO, I AM NOT GOD, we applaud our humanity and enjoy peace.
If the trade does not go well, in other words the rise or fall of pips is not what you expected, then you can manually exit a trade at any point which allows you to limit your loss.
