The Roulette Wheel: Its History And Explanation
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| − | + | It's not that saying NO makes life any more pleasurable. But it does make it more authentic, more self-aware and self-assured. In keeping NO'S clean we discover that others will get what they need from a power greater than us. And that is the essence of true faith. When we say respectfully and joyfully, NO, I AM NOT GOD, we applaud our humanity and enjoy peace.<br><br>Notice a pattern? It's not just a NO. It's a judgmental NO. It's a NO that has to somehow put the other person down, punish the other, make known that it's not just NO. It's a NO that is steeped in resentment and past wounds - either felt for the event/person of the moment or more often and more sinister, the painful "door matting" of our past.<br><br>That's right... you got it... Questions! (You did get it right?) Unless our mind can find a reason to answer a question, it's like an engine just waiting for someone to turn the key and fire it up. No question - no problem. No problem - no need to find solution. No need to find solution - no need to think.<br><br>No matter the contents of your letter, keep it short, simple and sweet. Also, you should send your letter via certified mail. And try to include evidences of your efforts to repay all your debts as well as your financial hardships at present. Think of it as compelling evidence.<br><br>Related to that fact, we, teachers of English should view the material and the students in clear perspective. Eliminating the material from our English teaching and learning plan will be unfair for the later group, those who need teachers' instruction. Meanwhile, teaching the material, preposition, in a conventional way will make the first group feel bored. The solution for this is for teachers to keep teaching the material while at the same time make those the first group feel involved. And to achieve this purpose, using game to teach preposition is the wisest choice. But, what kind of game I can use to teach preposition? That's the question which may echo in your head. Well, if you are looking such game, then I hope the following game, "do what your teacher says" game is applicable in your class.<br><br>The answers followed a universal pattern. No one really likes to say No. We like to say YES because we are made for service. We are hard wired to help. It's in our nature to be pleasing.<br><br>When you head straight into the explanation then you are essentially saying that her feelings don't matter. For instance, if you had a fight with your woman and you say "I'm sorry that I got so upset, but it's just that you were being so bossy towards me..." then she will hear that she is the reason the fight started and that she should be the one apologizing to you. This will send her into defensive mode and make her feel like you are completely blaming her for the fight. Even if you are just trying to offer a true explanation of how you felt this will not go over well.<br><br>Back to the weather/market example. Let's say the weather forecast for market day was bright and sunny, but you decided to stay home instead. Even though people turned up at the markets, stayed a long time browsing and would have brought your cakes and jams, it didn't happen because you decided not to show up. | |
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It's not that saying NO makes life any more pleasurable. But it does make it more authentic, more self-aware and self-assured. In keeping NO'S clean we discover that others will get what they need from a power greater than us. And that is the essence of true faith. When we say respectfully and joyfully, NO, I AM NOT GOD, we applaud our humanity and enjoy peace.
Notice a pattern? It's not just a NO. It's a judgmental NO. It's a NO that has to somehow put the other person down, punish the other, make known that it's not just NO. It's a NO that is steeped in resentment and past wounds - either felt for the event/person of the moment or more often and more sinister, the painful "door matting" of our past.
That's right... you got it... Questions! (You did get it right?) Unless our mind can find a reason to answer a question, it's like an engine just waiting for someone to turn the key and fire it up. No question - no problem. No problem - no need to find solution. No need to find solution - no need to think.
No matter the contents of your letter, keep it short, simple and sweet. Also, you should send your letter via certified mail. And try to include evidences of your efforts to repay all your debts as well as your financial hardships at present. Think of it as compelling evidence.
Related to that fact, we, teachers of English should view the material and the students in clear perspective. Eliminating the material from our English teaching and learning plan will be unfair for the later group, those who need teachers' instruction. Meanwhile, teaching the material, preposition, in a conventional way will make the first group feel bored. The solution for this is for teachers to keep teaching the material while at the same time make those the first group feel involved. And to achieve this purpose, using game to teach preposition is the wisest choice. But, what kind of game I can use to teach preposition? That's the question which may echo in your head. Well, if you are looking such game, then I hope the following game, "do what your teacher says" game is applicable in your class.
The answers followed a universal pattern. No one really likes to say No. We like to say YES because we are made for service. We are hard wired to help. It's in our nature to be pleasing.
When you head straight into the explanation then you are essentially saying that her feelings don't matter. For instance, if you had a fight with your woman and you say "I'm sorry that I got so upset, but it's just that you were being so bossy towards me..." then she will hear that she is the reason the fight started and that she should be the one apologizing to you. This will send her into defensive mode and make her feel like you are completely blaming her for the fight. Even if you are just trying to offer a true explanation of how you felt this will not go over well.
Back to the weather/market example. Let's say the weather forecast for market day was bright and sunny, but you decided to stay home instead. Even though people turned up at the markets, stayed a long time browsing and would have brought your cakes and jams, it didn't happen because you decided not to show up.
